Imagine being warm, comfortable, safe, well fed, and surrounded by people who like you. Actually, let’s upgrade that to people who love you, and for good measure, let’s even throw into the mix at least one rockingly attractive person who was happy to have sex with you whenever you thought that was a good idea. If this sounds great, join the club. What we’re having you picture is a state of affairs in which the motives for food, sex, and social connection are all satisfied. However, as odd as this may sound, we’re going to suggest that this mini-heaven on Earth is not perfect. What’s missing? For most of us, even this delicious state of affairs wouldn’t be entirely fulfilling, because it wouldn’t satisfy the motivation to create, accomplish, and achieve (c)